Creating What It Is You Want.

What if the life you have envisioned for yourself. The life that you would absolutely love is actually closer than you believe right now. What if everything you have ever desired is here. "Yeh, right!" I hear you say. "This life I am living looks nothing like the life that I want, the life that I truly desire!" Well let's take a look at that for a moment.

Everything is here due to your thoughts and experiences and the way you interpreted those happenings and how you thought about those thoughts,… etc…etc. It is an ongoing process. But you created it all. If you meant to or not, it is here because you brought it here. Yes, you are a powerful creator! The fact that you may not know what it is that you are creating, you are still creating. It is a choice whether you now choose to stay in that place of default, where things, situations, people are appearing into your realm because you are allowing outside circumstances to affect you. So you are just reacting to everything around you. Or you choose to create from a place of wanting, desiring and setting intentions to have the things you want come into your life.

Creation is all about the mind. The number of thoughts that you are having in a day are almost all focused on a situation or a person that you desire. It may be a situation that has recently occurred or one that continues to replay in your mind. So a memory that seems to always keep you there, somehow attached to a certain time. Most of the time we are not even aware what it is that we are thinking about. We do it all day long. We fill our mind with thoughts. Do those thoughts make you smile, or make you frown? It's pretty easy really. How are you feeling throughout your day?

If your focus is on the negative, or the lack, the things that you do not have, then you will be attracting more and more of that into your life! It is only when we change what it is we want, and by that I mean when we are purposefully creating our life, that we will begin to see change. You see 'what you focus on – you get more of'. This is so important to understand. People seem to think, well I am just focusing on this person, or this item, it may be a car or a holiday, or a new house because I want them, or love them. But what most people don't see is that they are actually focusing on the lack. The problems in a relationship, the wishing that they had another car because the 'old bomb' is playing up. Focusing on the house that they do not have.

The 'I wish' statement usually precedes these desires. I wish I had that car. I wish I could live in a house like that. I wish we had a great relationship, … and so on.
Wishing is never going to cut it! Wishing is like saying, "oh, I want something, but it's out there somewhere, and only some form of magic is going to make it appear."

YOU are a CREATOR > Bring it IN!!!
Ask for it.
Be Specific.
And now, align with it!

Be specific. Know what it is you want. Most of my life, I felt blessed by what I had, I also desired very little (I had a huge problem with self-worth!) I asked for so little. I never desired for someone to adore me. To love me, and be with me, and support me, to want to marry me, to grow and experience things with me. No, all I would say was, "I just want someone to be nice to me. Someone that treats me nice."
Honestly, before I knew about my creation capabilities, that was all that I wanted. I thought that if that's what I asked for I would end up with someone nice like my father, who is loving and committed, inspirational and giving.

But that's not what I asked for. The Universe takes you at your word.
So I found guys that were just nice to me. Not overly nice. But just nice. Not even as nice as you would be to a friend. Just nice every now and then. Unavailable, not that they were married or in another relationship, they were just unavailable to me. It took me forever to make the connection. And then I did! Wow!

Finally, I made a list of the qualities that I wanted in my ideal partner. I just wrote them down, I only really focused them for a week, and then forgot, as I was currently dating one of those 'just nice' guys! But within a month, I began to notice that the guy I was with was beginning to transform before my very eyes. The qualities I was asking for in a man, he was now stepping up and being all those. I quickly learned the power of words and the power of being specific. What if you did that in all areas of your life?

You are Powerful!
Remember that!
Maria xx

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